Cooking Is Living Family History: Macaroni and Cheese Recipes That Connect Generations

Thanksgiving of my sophomore year at Florida State will always be etched in my memory. The Seminoles were in the hunt for a national title, gearing up to face Florida at home the Saturday after Thanksgiving. My roommates and I decided to stay in Tallahassee, skipping the trip home and creating our first-ever Friendsgiving.

I didn’t want to show up empty-handed, so I picked up the phone and called my grandmother, Anne. She walked me through her macaroni and cheese recipe step by step, and I scribbled it down on a notecard while sitting in my college apartment. Her voice carried more than instructions — it carried memory, tradition, and love.

That recipe, anchored by her signature use of sweetened condensed milk, became my foundation. Over the years, I’ve blended it with the precision of my Uncle Gary, a retired professional chef who taught me how to balance flavors, and the cultural wave of Patti LaBelle’s viral “Over the Rainbow Mac & Cheese,” which reminded me that soul food classics aren’t just recipes — they’re legacies.

Today, I make it my own with a modern twist: swapping elbows for cavatappi noodles, adding a chef’s balance of cheeses, and keeping Grandma Anne’s condensed milk alive in every batch. And because family tradition is never one-size-fits-all, I also honor Pop Pop’s preference — a can of stewed tomatoes folded in for tang and zest that breaks up the wall of cheesy goodness.

This dish isn’t just comfort food. It’s family history baked into a casserole dish. Every time I make it, I’m back in that Tallahassee kitchen, surrounded by friends, football hype, and the smell of something bigger than just mac and cheese — the taste of connection across generations.

Dubb’s Decadent Mac N Cheese

A recipe inspired by Grandma Anne’s condensed milk secret, Uncle Gary’s chef’s touch, and Patti LaBelle’s viral comfort food classic — with Dubbs’ modern cavatappi twist.

Ingredients (Serves 10–12)

1 lb. cavatappi pasta

2 cups sharp cheddar cheese, cubed or shredded

2 cups Colby Jack cheese, cubed or shredded

1 cup Muenster cheese, cubed or shredded

2 cups Velveeta cheese, cubed

1 cup extra-sharp white Vermont cheddar

1 can (14 oz) evaporated milk* — Grandma Anne’s signature

2 cups half & half (plus extra to pour over the top before baking)

4 large eggs, beaten

1 stick (½ cup) unsalted butter, melted

1 teaspoon seasoned salt

½ teaspoon black pepper

¼ teaspoon cayenne pepper (optional, for kick)

Paprika, for topping

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Directions

1. Cook pasta: Boil cavatappi in salted water until just shy of al dente (still firm to the bite). Drain, quick rinse, and set aside.


2. Make custard base: In a large bowl, whisk together eggs, condensed milk, 2 cups half & half, seasoned salt, black pepper, and cayenne.

3. Combine cheeses: Reserve ½ cup of each cheese for topping. Mix the remaining cheeses together.

4. Assemble casserole:

Preheat oven to 350°F. Grease a 13×9″ deep casserole pan.

Toss the cooked pasta with melted butter and cheese mixture until well coated.

Pour the custard base over the pasta and stir gently.

Transfer to the baking pan, smooth out the top, and pour a thin layer of extra half & half over the entire surface to keep it moist while baking. Cover with foil.

5. Bake: Bake covered for 45–50 minutes.

6. Finish topping: Remove foil, sprinkle reserved cheeses evenly on top, dust with paprika, and bake uncovered for another 20–30 minutes until bubbly and golden brown.

7. Set & serve: Let rest 10–15 minutes before serving so it sets into creamy, sliceable layers.

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Pro Tip 🧀

Cook the noodles to almost al dente — they’ll finish cooking in the custard, absorbing flavor without turning mushy.

Always cover the assembled dish with a thin layer of half & half before baking. This keeps the macaroni rich and prevents it from drying out.





Anne’s Variation ❤️

For her husband Pop Pop, Grandma Anne would stir in 1 can of stewed tomatoes before baking. The tomatoes cut through the richness with a tangy zest, creating a lighter, more balanced version of this otherwise ultra-cheesy classic.

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*Edit –  I had to update and edit the recipe after speaking with my Uncle Gary and confirming that my recollection of condensed milk was an error and that my grandmother, Anne, used evaporated milk in her recipe.

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